Monday, December 20, 2010

Addicted


Confession: I am totally addicted to The Mortal Instruments Series! It is worthy the late nights and lack of sleep to enjoy this series. Since I started reading, I haven't been able to put it down, and I love it! The first book is a little slow, and it is hard getting into the character's head, but by the second book, you are completely hooked. The third book is full of suspense, and you can't put it down because you feel the culmination of all the other books coming to a final peak of conflict. And, I just found out that there is going to be a 4th book coming out in April! Can't wait! Awesome reads for over the holidays, if you are done holiday shopping! :) Otherwise, head on over to your local DownEast Store for some good deals on clothing! Ha ha! Do I sound like a commercial yet?

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Sick Day+Day Off=Reading Day

I don't know if any of you also enjoy reading while you are sick, but I know Ted and I sure do. So, today, since it was my day off, and Ted has been deathly ill, I sat by him are read all day in bed. It was a refreshing experience, because I needed to escape my life for a few hours and live in a world you can flick on and off by the turn of a page. But, I borrowed this suggested book from a girl in my ward, and really enjoyed it. It has a lot of external conflict, so the story moves along quickly. You may not get hooked within the first 100 pages, but the end, it sucks you in and leaves you wanting more. Luckily, there is a second book, so I am starting on it tomorrow. But, for all of you out there that encounter either a day off, or a sick day, maybe open this novel and enjoy a quick get-away. It won't leave you disappointed.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Earth...A Giant Present


Today we talked about how the earth was created for mankind, and how we are given dominion over it. We also related the earth to being a present that God and Jesus created and gave to each one of us...appropriate for Christmastime. So, if the earth is a giant present, then we should probably appreciate and take care of it, right? But then, we talked about how the earth is not only here for us to live on, but also here for us to enjoy. Like the several world wonders, and undiscovered parts of the planet. This made me want to travel and see every piece of God's creation for us. It also made me want to enjoy the world and all that it holds. And, as I logged onto my laptop today and msn (my homepage) opened, I saw that there was a slide show about all the beautiful wonders on the planet. I flipped through the slide show and loved the sights. It is all very inspiring, and makes me yearn to learn and see more.
Last year, Ted and I were lucky enough to go on a road trip for two weeks, and we decided to do a West-Coast trip. We started out in Northern Idaho, Couer D Alene, for those who are familiar with Idaho. It is an amazing place to visit, with a lake surrounded by trees and huge homes. The city itself started booming with logging companies when logging was in high demand years ago. Then, slowly turned into a popular travel spot on the map. This pine covered mountainous region is surrounded by rolling hills with farmland, which is consistent with most of Idaho.
As we turned our noses to the west, we traveled through Spokane, and all the way across the state of Washington to Seattle. For some reason, I had always imagined Washington completely covered in trees, but it is not. There are millions of acres of farmland, and rugged mountains. We crossed the Columbia River, which has created a huge gorge in the soil, splitting the state in half. In Seattle, you drive through a hill with homes built on top that are located directly over the road. This amazed me. Seattle is a busy city. The space needle stands proud in the city scape, calling all who enter. As you gaze west to the ocean, south to Mount St. Helen's, east to the United States, and north to Canada from the top of the space needle, you feel like you can reach out and touch the world with your fingertips. It is truly humbling to realize how small we humans are, yet how much we can accomplish together. Building a city as great as Seattle may have taken years, but it happened, which proves much can be done if we put our minds and souls into a collaborative effort.
Since we couldn't travel further west by car, we headed down the coast on HWY 101. The ocean was met with huge cliffs of rock and pine trees scaling over 100 feet in height. The beaches were not covered with people, but eerie fog. A kind of desolation and undiscovered feeling radiated from the vacant beaches. Moss smothered every rock and tree in sight, creating a green landscape. Even the homes had a hint of green to them as they flew by the car window. Only the road seemed to remain a constant black shade, except at the edges where the moss threatened to seep over.
Entering Oregon, we visited Astoria and enjoyed the massive bridge that connects Washington and Oregon over the Columbia River as it heads out to sea. We learned, at a coast guard museum in Astoria, that several ships and lives have been lost along the Columbia River because of the turbulent waters that collide from river to ocean. Who would've known? The waters looked calm to us, but videos showed the towering waves that spurred human invention to create a unique boat to scale the waves without becoming capsized. Large saw mills and giant trees on semi-trucks were seen on every corner as we drove through cities and towns up north. Then, past Portland, we were released from the grips of green and became overwhelmed with the acres of farmland on lush hillsides. If Oregon didn't rain so much, it would be the ideal place to live. I would say it is the most beautiful place I have ever seen.
As we entered California, we headed west again, to see the great Redwood Forest. Again, green everywhere, but this time, tree trunks bigger than the semi-trucks carrying the already harvested wood. We actually drove our car through a carved-out redwood. How many people can say they have driven their car through a tree, and lived to tell about it? We sure can. Above the Redwoods, we found a quaint little town called Smith River. We spent the night in a cabin that is located on a cliff just above the beach. We left our windows open all night and listened to the tide come crashing into the rocks. Then, in the morning, we set out to the beach, discovering shells, and other deep sea wonders. The water had moved 30 foot trees onto the shore, which were bleached by salt and sun to a light shade of gray. Still moist from the night tide, the tree made a perfect sunrise seat. The sun rose over tree covered mountains that lift from the sea into the sky.
Once we hit Santa Rosa, the road became cluttered with cars. City, all the way down the coast until we headed out of Oakland. San Francisco is a little island with buildings stacked on top of each other. The streets are narrow, and thousands of people walk instead of drive. A wise choice, if you ask me, because the roads are confusing, and we almost got in a wreck the 10 minutes we were there. San Francisco to Oakland is pure city, with nothing but rooftops, homes, and buildings for as far as the eye can see. Ocean meets up with city on all sides. Then, more farmland and semi-trucks east of the city. But, this time, the trucks carried all sorts of fruits instead of trees like we saw in Washington and Oregon. We saw lots of onion trucks too. California is one of the highest agricultural producing states in the whole United States, and you would never know it unless you drove it. Then, we hit LA. Wow! What a city. Instead of continuing south to San Diego, we headed back east to Arizona.
The change from Oregon to Arizona is astounding. Where Oregon has trees, Arizona has cacti, and jagged rocks. It is worse than Stephanie Meyer's "The Host" book. You cannot take a step without encountering some type of plant that pierces the skin. And, if the plants aren't enough, the rocks are. Enormous formations and sharp peaked mountains rise out of the desert sand. The whole land looks dead, except where water is accessible, then cotton farms and all other sorts of crops pop out of the desert scape. It is quite the contrast, in temperature as well. A jacket is always needed up north, but down south, nothing but a t-shirt suffice, if that, during the summer months.
Phoenix, the 5th largest city in the United States. You would never know it by driving into it, but if you fly over it, the flat valley is eroded by homes and buildings. A bustling, happy city greets you as you leave the desert rock behind. And, all cultures await to be discovered. People from around the globe find this desert land a home. With it comes much learning and growth.
Heading north, mountains ensue, and snow begins to top the mountains. Sharp rock and more trees overtake the desert terrain. The earth softens, and becomes plentiful again. Homes spring up in little towns, finding a way of life that is unique to all. Then, the Rockies billow forth from the ground. Two plates of the earth collide to create a beautiful sight to behold. The wonders of southern Utah proceed the mountains, bringing red rock formations, and orange spirals to a whole new level. There is nothing like it in the world. Truly a world wonder.
Salt Lake City, the city that nestles into the Rockies on the West. And on up to Idaho again. There is much farmland covered in snow, but in the spring, it will bring forth food to feed the people in the big cities, such as Phoenix, Los Angeles, Portland, Seattle, and San Diego. The wonders we found from this trip vary, and there are many more to be found in the world, but it astounds, none the less. Now, living in the rough desert sand, trying to cohabitate with scorpions and rattle snakes, brings a whole new appreciation for soft things, such as moss on trees, and carpet. Enjoy the tiny bit of world you live in, because there is nothing else like it. And, share it with someone you love. This world is a present, one to be cherished and loved.

Saturday, December 11, 2010

Chronicles of Narnia

Last night Ted got us free movie tickets. So, after work we went to the Chronicles of Narnia movie. It was very good. We love the inspiring quotes from C.S. Lewis, and to watch the growth the children have made in each movie. It is definitely worth the watch. If you go to this movie, you need to listen to the closing song (the song that plays during the credits at the end of the movie). It is very inspiring and I cried during it. Have fun!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

It's a Mind Shift


Ted keeps telling me that all I have to do is change my mind set and everything will be okay.

Let me explain...
So, things are a little tight in our family right now, and when I say tight, I mean, tight in the money department. We like to spend our money faster than we earn it, so it makes things a little stressful (especially when I balance the account). So, last night I sat down with Ted and decided to talk about our crazy finances and figure out a way to stop spending so much. We came up with this plan...no clothes, no food, and no entertainment, which means, we cannot spend money on any of these things for the next week. Okay, I work at a clothing store and am around cute clothes all day, which makes the clothing part hard not to spend money on. Secondly, the clothing store is in the mall, which has a food court about 100 steps away, which means, easy to get food. And, there is a theater in the mall, which means movies are fun and easy to go to when I get off work early (And, there is another Chronicles of Narnia movie coming out this week). Hence, with these three things eliminated, we would save about $500 to $1000 a month.
Now, to me, this trade off means a lot more work. Now I have to cook and prepare meals 3 times a day, and I have to contain myself when we get new product in the store, and I can't just go to the movies whenever I want. This is a little overwhelming, and as I was talking to Ted about it, he said, "This is as big or as little of a deal as you want it to be. If you think it is a big deal, is too hard, and takes too much effort, you will never accomplish it. But, if you think that fixing meals only takes 5 minutes, and not buying clothes will not kill you, then you will be just fine." He continued to tell me about how it is all perspective, and that everything in life is as big of deal as we make it. So, next time I have something huge to accomplish, I am just going to turn it into a small accomplishment, and it won't seem so daunting. You see, it is a mind shift. That is why some people deal with certain issues better than others. Like, I freak out when our account only has a few dollars left in it, whereas Ted will nod, take a deep breath, and stop spending it. I have a lot to learn. Thank goodness I have a husband full of wisdom, patience, and love to help me. By the way, Ted has been doing all the cooking and packing of lunches since we started this thing yesterday. Sure glad I have him to help us out, cause otherwise, we would be going hungry!

Monday, December 6, 2010

Kaylee Writes

Check out my writing blog at kayleewrites.blogspot.com. Oh, and if you actually check out my blog, please leave comments. Thanks!

Friday, December 3, 2010

Famous Sugar Cookies

With Christmas, comes treats for Santa! Here are some that are a tradition at our home!


Sugar Cookies:

Ingredients:
3/4 cup shortening
1 cup sugar
2 eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla
2 1/2 cups flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt

Directions:
Mix well shortening, sugar, eggs, and vanilla. Blend flour, baking powder and salt. Chill in refrigerator at least 1 hour. Heat oven to 400 degrees Fahrenheit. Bake 6-8 minutes. Let cool before frosting.


Butter Icing:

Ingredients:
1/3 cup softened butter
3 cups confectioner's (powdered) sugar
about 3 tablespoons heavy cream (I do a lot more, enough to make it smooth for easy application on cookies)
1 1/2 teaspoon vanilla
Food coloring to desirable color

Directions:
Blend butter and sugar together. Stir in vanilla and cream until smooth. (I usually whip all in all ingredients with an electric beater).

Monday, November 29, 2010

DownEast Specials

Buy 2, Get 3rd Half Off! And, spend $25, get a bag for only $15! Quite the steal of a deal! Come and see me!

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Starting Again

Okay, so I am actually starting to write, in my own way, again. Since I do not have time to actually sit down and write a novel, I have decided just to use my "Kaylee Writes" blog as an outlet for my writing and thoughts. I have just written a little post, well it is actually a little longer, so if you read it, plan on a few minutes. Let me know if you like it, please leave a comment. Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving. I am so thankful for everything in my life. I am going to list a few of them (in no particular order, except maybe the first few):
1. God, Jesus, Holy Ghost
2. The Gospel
3. Loving Husband
4. Prophets
5. Families
6. Home
7. Water (indoor and outdoor)
8. Electricity
9. Cars
10. Animals
11. Neighbors
12. Friends
13. Jobs (Verizon, mybullfrog.com, and DownEast Basics)
14. Co-workers
15. Clothes
16. Air conditioning
17. Heat/Furnace
18. Food
19. Sunshine
20. Flowers
21. Trees
22. Music
23. Technology
24. Movies
25. Beds
26. Blankets
27. Pillows (as you can tell, I am about ready to go to bed)
28. Fire
29. Wind
30. Modern conveniences
31. Paradise Bakery (especially their Fire Roasted Tomato Soup and Chocolate Chips Cookies)
32. Stuffed animals (not the ones that people kill and stuff, but the fake kind, think of Toy Story)
33. Freedom
34. Religion
35. USA
36. Constitution
37. Education
38. Farmers
39. Producers
40. Computers
41. Communication
42. Rain
43. Clouds
44. Roads
45. Airplanes

Friday, November 26, 2010

Black Friday

Need I say more?

Yes, I must!!! It is harvest season for retail! Now it is our turn to put in 12 hour days, and little sleep! Yee haw!

So, I am exhausted from working a double shift (11pm to 4 am, 9 am to 4 pm), and am ready to step into a hot bath, but my computer called to me. And, I thought I would share the joy and excitement of my day with you...if you are out there.
Opening the store at midnight...not all it is cracked up to be. My district manager told me to "Be Ready!!!", and I was! There were four of us, all waiting for a surge of people as soon as the doors cracked, but instead of a stampede, we got a trickle of the people who didn't want to compete with the stores across the way (Express and Pac Sun), who were trying to get 40% off before noon...which is kind of ironic, because their clothes are overpriced anyway, so even with the discount, they are probably still way more than DownEast's clothes, and not nearly as cute...if I must say so myself. Anyway, after watching the "bigger" and "better" stores get all the traffic, I felt a little discouraged. As I went back to the hotel room (I rented a hotel room down the street so I didn't have to drive 45 minutes to take a nap for a couple hours, then drive another 45 minutes), I felt a little discouraged. After all the hype about it going to be a dang good morning, it felt pitiful. Well, going back at 9 am, it was still on the slower side, but thankfully picked up around 11 am (our normal opening time...wish we could've opened regular hours). Luckily, there has been a steady flow of traffic since then.
I attribute the slowness to the store still being new, and not a lot of people knowing about it. In fact, most of our customers were from out of state, and they were just walking by and decided to come in and look around. Once inside, however, they fell in love with the clothes, and now want one in their city. But, for the Glendale, Arizona crowd, I am afraid we fell a little short of what I was hoping for. Maybe it will pick up throughout the season, and we will start showing those bigger stores who is boss. We have awesome sales going on every week, which should help fuel some interest in our unique, and affordable merchandise.
So, to finish my train of thought for this long and probably most boring post you've ever read, if you've made it this far, Black Friday wasn't half as scary as I anticipated. And, if anything, I found out who my best employees were, and who won't make it past December 31st. Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving, and is finding the holiday season to be Merry and Bright!
The End!

Sunday, November 14, 2010

4 Years

Equals a camping trip to Lake Pleasant with our camp trailer!
Dutch Oven Cooking...the only way to go when camping
Ted kept trying to get up close pictures of me, but when we go camping, I do not exactly look my best, so I become a little "camera shy"
Green patch of grass where we were able to relax and read. Check out the nice rigs we parked next to.
Here is our pickup and trailer...doesn't look too bad until you put it next to the brand new ones, and then you can tell it is from the 70's!
Sunset over the Valley
Don't want to touch that one!
Ted loves his cactus, although I have no idea why
Our bed packed into the trailer! Best sleep I have gotten in a while. There is something about camping that makes sleep and food taste better!
I love my sunflowers! They add so much to the trailer! And, they are still alive!
Ted says it is 4 years of eternity...and I have to agree. We have been very happily married for 4 years. We LOVE married life, and couldn't ask for more. Both of us are very grateful for one another and the love we share.

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Love Life

The other day, my brother in law, Jon, texted me and said: "I think we are more incredible than we could ever imagine and that's why the veil had to be placed. To protect us from ourselves."
Ever since he brought up this point, it has been churning inside my brain. Now, Jon is one of those people who make you think deep. He will ask a question so profound you wonder where in his 18 year old mind he could fathom such a thought.
But, as we know, each of us are spirits, that have been placed inside mortal bodies to be tried and tested individually. We are also here to learn and grow. Our spirits consist of intelligence. And what is intelligence? It is knowledge from the beginning of time, stored up and gathered together. So, we are literally made up of pure intelligence. So, why do we have to gain knowledge if we already have it?
I think Jon's quote hit it on the head. We are more incredible, and have more knowledge than we realize. That is why when we learn something, it is more like remembering. The veil was placed, and so we forgot who we are and where we came from. If only we comprehended that we are sons and daughters of a God and King. Would that change our perspective of each other and the life we are living? Would we be willing to open our minds to more challenging things, and push ourselves harder? And are we here to remember who we are? And what we are capable of?
Right now I am a Beehive Advisor with the young women, and as such, I teach lessons. This week's lesson was on Using our Leisure Time Wisely. I had each of the young women add up the hours in their weeks and see how many hours of "free time" they had. Some had more than others, but the average was around 17 hours a week. The high amount of hours surprised me, because I made them take into account school, homework, sleep, eating, chores, and other things they had to participate in. So, with this amount of time, I asked them what they did. Most of them said watch movies, TV, look through magazines, talk on the phone, and stuff like that. In the lesson, it called these activities as "passive", and encouraged the girls to do things more active. Some of the activities listed were, reading, playing a musical instrument, writing in journal, doing family history work, spending time with family and friends doing wholesome recreational activities, and so forth. It also touched on how it is important to be well-rounded, and participate in a wide range of activities, not just one or two. As we do this, it helps us learn, grow, and stay healthy. In other words, we need to stop wasting time. "Time is a wise man's treasure", the lesson taught. In the world we live in, we have several time saving things like, dishwashers, clothes washer, cars, microwaves, fast-food restaurants, etc. So, what do we do with all this extra time? And do we use it wisely?
While teaching this lesson, it made me reanalyze my life. I participate in the same activities over and over. I have a routine, and usually don't step too far out of my comfort zone. But, with this lesson, it showed me that I need to do more and push harder. We are all very talented, and we can develop more talents if we are willing to stretch our souls.
With that, I love the quote: "We are not mortal bodies having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual bodies having a mortal experience." Lets make this mortal experience a good one!
As our spirits leave our bodies and return to the spirit world, what are we taking with us? If it really is only knowledge and memories, why not make them some great ones? Maybe we can keep that in mind as we go throughout this week. Let us try something new, and step outside of our comfort zones. Who knows, it may change our lives.
And, thanks Jon for the wonderful insight you share with me! I will be forever grateful for your inspiration.

Friday, October 29, 2010

Sunday, October 17, 2010

New Calling

This picture I included because I love what is symbolizes. It makes you think about what sacrament meeting is really supposed to be about. Early Morning Seminary Students...love the photo in the back!
Thankfully, I don't have to give up my young women's calling. If they would've released me from young women's, I would've thought twice about accepting, but they didn't, so I accepted my new calling as Morningside Director. Now, you are probably asking what that calling is...I had to ask myself. Well, you know how Ted is an early morning seminary teacher? Well, when the seminary teachers have in-service (once a month), I am in charge of the activity the students do. Of course, the seminary council (which consists of youth in seminary), decide what activity they would like, and I am the one who helps them carry it out. I am so excited to work with the youth in the stake, and see their bright and shining spirits early in the morning, because mine sure isn't that bright and shiny at 5 am. I went to seminary on Friday, and it is sooo early! I am going to have to start going to bed at 8:30 pm the night before so I can wake up at 4 am. But, it will be all worth it to help with the activities and be involved with the amazing youth that willingly wake up early to participate in early morning seminary. I am impressed at the dedication the youth in this area have toward seminary. When I was in high school, I skipped seminary all the time, and when I did go, I didn't really appreciate it. And, I had release time, which meant it was in the middle of my school day, not at 5 in the morning. So, it is refreshing, and a huge testimony builder to see young men and women rise early to learn more about the gospel. It proves that there is still hope for the future!
On another note, Ted and I were lucky enough to have an investigator sit with us at church today. As we sat through sacrament, I looked at the procedings with the eyes of an investigator, not a person who has been a member my whole life and takes the LDS culture for granted. I felt the spirit so much stronger by paying attention to the talks, singing the words of the hymns, not talking while the sacrament was being passed, and taking the sacrament with the intent of doing better in my life. If we take a step back and really think about what we are doing instead of just going through the motions every week, it will mean so much more. We need to be continually renewing our testimony of the Savior by going to church, not just going because it is a habit, or everyone else is doing it. Next week when you go to church, look at the meetings as if it were your first time, and you were investigating the LDS faith. You will get so much more out of it.

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Unveiling

Front of the store unveiled!Great ending to a long week!
It is here! The last two weeks have been insane! We unpacked the store, built it out, and opened this week! It looks so good! I would show you pictures of the store, but in fear of having it replicated, I cannot show pictures. You will just have to come and visit! :)
My employees are wonderful! I have eight people who work in the store with me, and each one of them bring something different to the team. A couple of the girls are in my ward, and then my three shift leads all have husbands going to the medical school in Glendale, and are friends with some of my friends from Idaho. It is such a small world! I love it!
So, if I am slow to post things about my life from now on out, it is because I am spending all my time working. Thank goodness I love my job!!! And, how many people can honestly say that?

Sunday, September 26, 2010

DownEast Basics

I started my new job just over a week ago...and I am really enjoying it. I can't believe how much work it is to build a new store, and I am building two in three weeks. I am exhausted, to say the least. We have to unpack over 1200 pounds of clothes, hang them or fold them perfectly, steam the clothes that are hung up, and then organize the store. We also have to assemble fixtures, and get the security, computer, and sound system working. All in all, it has been an extremely busy last week and a half, and I have another two weeks before it is over for my Arrowhead store.
The Tempe store is up and running, and I love working there. It is an outdoor mall, so there are lots of people who come just to hang out. The night life at the mall is great! They have concerts and all sorts of nice places to dine. They also have a theater, and bowling and billiards, so that makes it popular for the younger crowd. But, I can't wait to open Arrowhead so I don't have to drive so far.
We are starting the Arrowhead build-out on October 2nd, and the store opens on October 8th, so it should be a fun week! Right now I am trying to get all my hiring done. That has been a challenge. I have tons of resumes, but it is hard to find people to trust and depend on to run a store. I have two girls from my ward hired, which I am way excited about. And, I still have about 5 to 6 more people to hire in less than a week. Wish me luck!
I will post pictures when I started building out the store! :)
Oh, and if you don't know what DownEast carries for clothes, check out their website! They have the cutest clothes, all under $60. The clothes are sooo comfortable and modest...which is a huge plus! Outside of Utah and Idaho, it is hard to find clothes that are modest, so DownEast is a big blessing to people who want to dress modestly, and still look and feel good.

www.downeastbasics.com

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Things Happen...

For a reason. This is something I am constantly telling myself and those around me. I don't know if it is because it gives us reassurance that everything is going to be okay in the end, or if it is just faith. But, this simple little phrase holds more than water. So, when life is going crazy, or if it feels like it has turned upside down, remember that things happen for a reason, and everything will be okay in the end. Have a little faith, say a little prayer, and then take another little step forward.
As I watch the news, and get updates on my computer, it can be extremely depressing to see the disasters in the world. I feel like I get bombarded with sad information...someone died here, another person lost their home somewhere else, and a big storm is about to hit a big city. I don't know if it is because I am older and actually pay attention to what is going on around me, or if things really are getting worse, but it feels like there is always something wrong or bad going on. If it isn't our economy failing, it is a hurricane. If it isn't a hurricane, it is a fire. If it isn't a fire, it is a huge wreck.
Why do bad things happen? And how do we get past them? I guess the answer is different for everyone. We all choose how we react to outside influences and negative things that happen to us. We all have our own challenges custom made. It is how we deal with those challenges that make us who we are, and what we can become. As long as we choose the Lord, we will be taken care of. Now, I am not saying our challenges will end, in fact, a lot of times they get worse, but we will know that someone is by our side, and we can lean on Christ to help us.
I often like to reflect on the promise: Be prepared and ye shall not fear. I guess the best way to prepare for life's challenges is to live every day to our best ability, like every day is our last day here on the earth. Then, we will be prepared for whatever comes our way, and our future will be much brighter, whether it is in this life or the next.
One example, to me, who lived life prepared is my father. Since he thought ahead of today, on to tomorrow, and twenty years down the road, he secured a good occupation for my mother and my brother in Idaho (and me if I chose it), that will help them to survive without him. He also left a nice inheritance for my eight other brothers and sisters in Utah. Not one day went by that he didn't sacrifice for all of us kids. He didn't leave us burdened in debt because he wanted to travel, or enjoy life's pleasures. And, the sacrifices he made in his life for my family, is now paying off, and will continue to pay off for years. I think that so many of us get caught up in the day to day trivial problems and our immediate wants. It burdens us with debt, guilt, and instability. But, what about our future? And our children's future? And our grand children's future? Shouldn't we prepare a future for them that is better than ours? And how do we do that? From today on out, I am starting to think about the future, not the present, or the past. I plan on focusing my energy on what I can do for others, not myself. If we truly are blessed for serving others, then why don't we do more of it?
And what are you going to do different today than you did yesterday? Are you going to go out and spend your last dollar on something you want in a moment of lust? Or are you going to save it? Or donate it to a good cause? And what are you going to do with the bad things that happen in life? If things really do happen for a reason, then what is the Lord trying to tell us? If we don't listen to the Lord tapping us on the shoulder, He may just give us a swift kick in the butt. I don't know about you, but I would rather have the tap on the shoulder. Make the right choice, because what you choose today will change your tomorrow.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Home Projects

Some sunset pictures to start off with, and then we will get into the fun stuff!

All finished for the fence!
Can you believe the gate is thirty feet long? You will if you try to push it! It is HEAVY!
Just about done.
Installing the rod iron.
Cleaning the extra dirt out of the inside before cement gets here. Pouring cement around the outside.



Workin' hard!
It amazed me that they mixed their own type of cement mix for the bottom of the pool by hand. This reminds me of stories my father told me as a child. When him, his father, and brother built homes in Utah, they mixed all their own cement, and moved it with wheelbarrows. They did this everyday all day when they would pour a foundation. We have it so nice today, because of our ancestors and their hard work!

Progress...
We had the people who built our fence come out and help us build the inside of the pool. They are some dang hard workers!
Still smiling after working for over two weeks on this thing.
Before the liner

Pool liner getting stretched into place.
Watching the pool fill up with water. At this rate, it is going to take a week!
Working at home can be a lot of fun, especially when you have a couple major projects to work on. As you see, Ted got a little creative while I was in Idaho, and we are finishing them up. The fence is all done! Yea! And the pool is getting there. We still have quite a bit to do on the pool, but at least we are marching along. We work on it before Ted goes to work, and after he comes home from work. We can't wait until we get to use it for enjoyment!
As for my job, I start training on Friday!!! I am so excited! I can't wait until the three days are over, and I get to start making money again! For those of you who don't know, I got a job with DownEast Basics. Next Monday, I start interviewing people, and get to put together my store team! The projected open date is set for October 8th, and we get a brand new store in the Arrowhead Mall. It is going to be a lot work getting it set up and ready for opening. Yippee!

Friday, September 10, 2010

What if there was no fight?


What if there was no fight? Would a book be worth turning the page? Would a TV be worth investing in? Would people run around the country killing each other? Would neighbor turn against neighbor? Would father turn on son, or son turn on father? Would the world stop mass destruction? What if there was no fight?
Animals and humans are more alike than most would admit, even myself at times. But, when we submit ourselves to instant gratification, and might makes right, we are nothing but dogs. Where in this world of conflict and pain has mankind gotten off the right train?
Did it start in the beginning? When Adam and Eve chose to eat of the fruit they were commanded not to eat? Or did it start before that? In the premortal life when Satan overtook the beautiful lives of a third? And, if it did start then, and continues today, how are we supposed to put it to an end?
In a day when right is wrong, and wrong is right, where do you draw the line? Do you protect yourself when someone breaks into your house at night? Do you allow them to rob you with submission? Or do you fight?
What makes a person entitled to take something that is not theirs? And what entitles them to do it? Does a gun? A group of friends? Or is it desperation? What is inside their minds that creates the thought of overpowering someone or something? Is it to prove power? Dominance? Of is someone making them do it?
We live in an age where we blame everyone but ourselves for our actions. So, if someone tries to kill you, are you entitled to kill them? What about their family? Their friends? Their lives? Are they not also a son or daughter? Father or mother? Brother or sister? Does any of this matter?
Or is it because we are self-absorbed? Thinking only of ourselves. Are our lives the only ones that matter? Don’t other people’s? If they are not relatives or friends, do they not deserve to live? Is that how this all started? Because last time I checked, we were all related.
It doesn’t matter what color our skin is. Or our hair. Or even our eyes. We are brothers and sisters. Why can’t we get along? Why can’t we love one another instead of hate? Why can’t we look deeper than the outside, and see the incredible spirits we are?
When did we stop believing? Stop believing in ourselves? In our fellow men? In our leaders? And most importantly, in our God? What is the reason we are here? Is it not to learn, grow, and be tested? Will we pass the test if we do not love? If we do not care? If we do not feel? What are we here to learn?
Of course, each one of us is different, unique. No other person in the world is identical to you, or me. So, what is your purpose? What is my purpose? What is the purpose of the person standing next to you? Do we have a purpose? Is there a meaning behind all this? Or are we like chopped logs, floating aimlessly down a river heading nowhere?
I don’t want to be headed nowhere. I want to have purpose. Meaning. A reason for living. A motivation for waking up every morning and thinking that today is going to be better than yesterday. So, what am I going to do today, to make it better than yesterday? Because ultimately, it is up to me, and only me. I have the power of making choices, and the consequences follow.
Faith. It is all about faith. I will take faith with me as my guide. I will arm myself with hope for a better future. And charity to love those who I do and do not meet. I will always have faith. Will you?
Will you stand with me today and say you have faith? Will you open your eyes and see a today that is better than yesterday? And a tomorrow that is better than today? Or have you lost faith? I pray we have faith, somewhere deep inside our souls, close to our hearts. Because in a day of so much turmoil, we are going to need faith as our guiding light. And what should we have faith in, you may ask…well, none other than our Older Brother, and His Father. Because, if it were not for them, where would we be?

Friday, September 3, 2010

Home At Last

And, this is what I came home to...Yes, Ted is putting in a pool. He also had a fence built the rest of the way around our house, and planted sod in our courtyard.
Here is a dog run for our dogs. The wall on the inside is only 4 feet high. It is really big, and the dogs love having their own space to run, play, and rest. We love it too, because now they aren't digging up our yard, and pooping everywhere.
Dog run fence.
We are getting rod iron installed next week, and will have two gates in the front of our house. I am sooo excited!
Ted also had the land cleared, so our yard is now ready for landscaping!
Here is the grass! We have a lawn...somewhat.
Grass!!!
Here is the block wall on the south side.
Ted working on the pool. I love how close it is to the house. We will be able to walk out the back door and jump right in.
I think Ted is trying to swim...or hoping for that to happen soon.
Ahhh...yes, the backstroke. This is quite entertaining.
Getting things set up for water! Can't wait!
One of the many Idaho sunsets I enjoyed while I was there.
Dumping the last load of Hard White Wheat before the storm hits.
My ride. I love this tractor. After being in huge trucks and tractors for 3 weeks, it was scary coming home and riding in a car, and going 65 mph.
The last few rows of grain. Adam would cut a row, and we would move the pipe into the row. Then, he would go back and cut the remaining grain.
As we were finishing up our last corner, it was amazing to see the storm clouds merge together. As we pulled out of the field with our equipment, it started raining. Our prayers for no rain, were answered.
Storm clouds gathering around the farm.
Adam and I. We took a little break and snapped a few photos before finishing up for the night. Our days/nights lasted about 12 hours of working without stop, and we ate lunch/snacks throughout the day. It was a lot of fun!
My mom and I on the farm. Glad Adam took this picture, or else I probably wouldn't have gotten one of the two of us.
My mom and Adam are two of the hardest workers I know.
My mom always has her cell phone handy. I am glad I captured this picture.
The sunsets in Idaho are something to marvel about.
This is where I lived for the last 3 weeks. At least there is air conditioning and heating! :)
Afternoon lighting on the grain.
I had to jump out and grab a picture of the grain cart unloading into the semi trailer. Thanks to our dear friends, and neighbors, the Murdock family, who generously loaned us a couple trucks, we were able to get our harvesting done very quickly.
Pierce and Morgan in the tractor. Helping me out! Gotta love it!
Morgan was so nice! She drove the tractor for me one morning, and strapped Pierce in the buddy seat with his car seat. It was too cute! I had to take a picture.
We let Lissa drive the pickups around the farm. She loved driving. I can't believe she will be getting her licence soon.
Lissa couldn't believe how big the combine was, especially the header.
Lissa, demonstrating how large the tractor is compared to a person.
The moon was full, and it took our breath away.
This picture is from the back yard of Ted and my old house.
I loved how the sun was penetrating the clouds with it's rays.
General Mills grain bins
General Mills, where we take our Hard White Wheat.
Our linear over our hay crop. Love this picture!
Unloading the semi at the mill.
Working on the combine header. This was a pain. It took us a couple days to get this working correctly.
Unloading into the grain cart. This in one of our first loads.

First of all, I have to mention how beautiful Idaho is! Not only is it beautiful from the ground, but also from the sky. I flew in and out of Idaho Falls, and loved the view from the window. The pivots make large green, gold, and brown patchwork circles across the terrain, the Snake River twists and turns through the valley, and the mountains are untouched. On my flight into Idaho Falls, there was a lady sitting behind me, and she was freaked out about landing. If any of you have flown into the tiny airport, you know that there is a short runway for small planes to land, and pretty much open fields surrounding it. Well, as we came in for the landing, she started hyperventilating. As we got closer to the ground, she grabbed the back of my seat and started complaining about how she hates landings. Like usual, there was a breeze (20 mph breeze), and so the plane would tip, turn, and sometimes jolt downward, which would make her yelp. I felt bad for the guy sitting next to her. But, eventually, we landed. And she bolted off the plane as soon as the door opened. Hope her lunch stayed down.
Secondly, I have to say how cold it is! While I was there, the average daytime temperature was between 60 and 70 degrees. The night temperature got down to freezing one night! Sooo cold!!! I had forgotten the wind as well. It seems like there is constant breeze, which is nice on the days it gets above 80 degrees, but on the other days, it makes it jacket weather.
I had a lot of fun spending time with my mom and brother. We worked on the combine header for a couple days, diagnosed and fixed breakdowns, moved linears, moved pipe, drove tractors and trucks, combined the grain, loaded trailers with hay, and talked on walky-talky's all day. It has been a good year since we have spent so much time together, and it felt good to get to closer with both of them.
Adam is starting to fill out through his chest, like my dad. It is crazy seeing him bulk up. Since we were young, he resembled my Grandpa Hancock, but he is taking on more of the Hales side now. Adam and Morgan's little guy, Pierce, is seriously the most precious person I have ever met. He is constantly smiling, and is incredibly smart. He is learning how to wave, can already say mama and papa, and will say "hey" if you aren't paying enough attention to him. He grabs things, and moves his arms with skill. When music is playing, he gets excited and makes noise, like he wants to sing along. He is already pretty much standing on his own, and even though his is only 6 months old, he is fitting into 12 month old baby clothes. Such an amazing and intelligent little man. He looks identical to Adam, and loves people. The whole time I was there, he didn't cry, which is quite something!
My mom is doing well. She is dating, and doing a lot of activities with her friends. I can't believe how young she looks! She has lost about 30 pounds, and is as skinny as me! This isn't a huge shock, because she is already tiny, but she looks really good. We went shopping together, and had a lot of fun. She enjoys going dancing on the weekends, and sings in an LDS singles chior that performs once a month at special firesides and events. A couple weeks ago, Craig Jessop from the Mormon Tabernacle Chior, came and directed them. My mom loved it. Like always, she works too hard. I only got a couple hours of down time to actually talk to her, but she likes staying busy, and the farm is her love and life. She still has the horses, cats, dogs, and chickens. It is incredible how she keeps up with everything. She outworks me, and I am 35 years younger than her! What an amazing woman.
Lissa, Ted's little sister, came down and spent a couple days with us on the farm. It was great having her around. She is very intelligent and bright. We went up and visited my friend Miriam, and we both noticed how fantastic she is with kids, and how she has a good head on her shoulders (meaning she is very grounded). When I have kids, I am calling Lissa for help and advice. She is very talented at playing the piano and singing. In the mornings, she would play our piano and fill the house with a harmonious spirit. I really set the stage for a wonderful day. Lissa is in the stage of life where she is trying to figure out who she is, and what she is supposed to be doing in life. The decisions she is making will influence her life forever, and she is already aware of that. I wish I was on top of things as she is at her age. She is going to go far in life, and have a great impact on many for good.
Jon, Ted's brother, came down for a night and it was an immense blessing for my family. He gave my brother, Lissa, and me, a priesthood blessing, and stood with Adam as he blessed my mom. It was incredbile. Jon has a powerful spirit that is beyond description. He has huge dreams, and I believe he will fulfill them. After his mission (and probably school), he would like to start a college, because he would like to have an impact for good upon the world, and he figures being a founder of a college would be a big sphere of influencing people. This dream is a wonderful thing, which could, in fact, touch the lives of many. I believe that he can fulfill this dream. He is going to be a powerful missionary. His testimony is strong and vibrant. He has a spirit deeper than the ocean, and he sees more than I could ever imagine. We had the opportunity to talk for a couple hours, and he amazes me. It is uplifting being around him. Seeing someone who has achieved a spiritual power that literally controls the human body, is beyond words. I admire and look up to him. He is a wealth of inspiration.
I also got to spend some time with my mother and father-in-law. They are truly amazing people. They have so much going on in their lives, and they have raised brilliant children. I look at each one of the kids, and see potential beyond grasp. I feel truly blessed to have in-laws that are full of love, respect, and honor. I cherish them everyday, and feel priveledged to be a part of the Garling Team.
I spent an afternoon with my friend Miriam. She is adorable! She has a new little baby boy, Cammon, who is precious. He is so tiny! After holding Pierce, Cammon feels like a feather. Adney, her oldest son, is such a good brother, and loves his little brother. He will kiss him, and make sure Miriam is taking good care of Cammon. Kyle and Miriam gave Adney some rabbits, and he loves them. He showed us his rabbits, both black, and loves to chase them around their pen. We went to the park and enjoyed the sun, and a little squirl that kept the kids entertained. Seriously, this squirrel would let the kids chase him, then take food from them, and climb a tree. It was too funny! Miriam is an incredbile mom, and takes excellent care of her two boys. She is an inspiration to me. She is another person I am going to be getting tips from once I have kids. :)
I spent a couple hours with my friend, Katie. She is pregnant, and having a baby boy December 15th. I am sooo excited for her. She is starting to show, and it is too cute! She is my friend who helped Ted and I move to Arizona with her husband, Jared. She is still in young womens, and takes on a lot of responsibility. She amazes me with her creativity. She makes the most beautiful scrapbooks, cards, and home decor. If only I could have an eye for detail and creativity like she does!
So, while I was in Idaho, I had this awesome thing done, called Foot Zoning. Basically, it is reflexology, but more intense. I loved it! It is incredible how much healing can be done through pressure points. Now, I am on the search for a good foot zoner in Arizona, because it is amazing! I have never had anything like this done before, and it by far, outdoes anything else I have had. Ted needs to go, and get balanced, so I am on the prowl.
Well, this has turned out to be a really long post. I guess a lot has happened in 3 weeks. Hope all is well for everyone else! It is GREAT to be home!!! I missed Ted so much! I doubt I will ever have an extended stay like that ever again. It is too hard being away from the one you love.